A blog here about not having children. Interesting that she mentioned both her and her husband not entirely being convinced about it, but it seeming the thing to do because everyone else is doing it.
It didn’t work out for them and she seems to have made peace with that, reflecting on how her marriage feels stronger for it.
ETA: I’ve picked the word ‘childless’ for the title, because that is the word used in the blog. It is no judgement on anyone who chooses not to have children - I know there has been a move to use ‘childfree’ instead.